Hello Max,
the thread is quite old already, so I'm not sure if the respons is still required. I do memory interface verification on a daily basis. Memory is speced at JEDEC, so you need a login there. JEDEC changed the policy some time ago and for current specs you need either to be member or buy them. But I think the old specs are still available for download after registration.
If you look for timings iI guess you could find some information in document 3_11_05_01R12.pdf and 3_11_06R9.pdf (guess with a search on the JEDEC site you can find this).
BTW, the interface of SDR was still LVTTL, so this might help alreadfy.
But as Robert mentioned you might take better the vendor datasheet e. g.
Regarding verification: dependent on the testpionts you could get SDRAM could be slow enough to measure (writes) with some cm distance to the DRAM. But I had a case about 2 years ago, where a new DRAM shrink caused issues.. Problem was, that with reflections the overshoots have been too high, but with any testpoint on the board it was difficult to really quantify the overshoots. For this system my customer built an interpsoer for his DRAM, just to allow measurements...
just my two cents..
Hermann