"The location of the decoupling capacitors is not critical because their performance is dominated by the inductance of their connection to the planes. At the frequencies where they are effective, they can be located anywhere within the general vicinity of the active devices [1]." In some cases I do place decoupling capacitors further from chips (e.g. decoupling capacitors around memory chips), but I have never seen any problems with placing capacitors close to the pins. Maybe if you have some special limitations and for some reasons (e.g. space) you can not place decoupling capacitors close to the chip, you may want to try to simulate your board or go deeper into the problematic, but in general designs I believe placing decoupling capacitors close to the pins is just simple way to be sure it will work ok.
I am still not 100% sure what do you mean by "keeping interplane capacitance evenly distributed along whole board", but if possible I try to have a solid GND plane placed as a neighbour layer of a solid power plane (e.g. 3V3). I read in some articles, that it creates a capacitor which may help filter the power.